Andrea and Paul’s wedding day provided crisp fall temperatures and beautiful blue skies and bright afternoon sun. I was armed and ready to shoot my final 2010 wedding in the Midwest before heading to my winter location in the Southwest. (Funny side-note: One of Andrea’s bridesmaids was married at my final Midwest wedding in 2008!) When I first arrived at Andrea’s parents house to photograph the girls getting ready, her dad greeted me at the door and gave me a shrug and a small grunt when I introduced myself and ask how the morning went. I thought he was just being a typical dad surrounded by a group of ladies getting make-up applied and hair coiffed all morning. As I made my way farther into the house, I realized there was a small snafu with the bouquets not looking exactly as Andrea had imagined. Fortunately the florist hightailed it back to the shop and returned with some more yellow flowers to fill in the bridesmaids bouquets with minutes to spare before all the girls piled into the limo to head to church.
I’m sharing this because weddings are a big deal. A very big deal. Most of my clients spend many long months making decisions about attire, flowers, colors, accoutrements, locations, themes and anticipate an overall feel of the day. It’s very easy to set certain expectations of exactly how the day will play out. It’s also very easy to get emotional when something doesn’t go according to plan. I remember with my own wedding eight years ago I made a cut-off for myself the week prior to the wedding and delegated anything that needed a decision at that point. I figured my friends and close family knew me well enough and knew what I expected out of my wedding day to answer on my behalf. I think I also realized at that point things were beyond my control and the most important part of the day would happen – we would say our vows in front of our family and closest friends and be married. Never mind that our officiant didn’t bring copies of the vows we wrote and emailed to him three weeks prior. When I learned of this about five minutes before the ceremony began I shrugged and said, “Oh well, we’ll still be married no matter what vows we use.” Which of course prompted my friends to look at me in shock and awe and wonder where the real Rachael was. It’s also pretty easy for me to talk about it now, since the day is just a memory for me. It’s also easy for me to say my awesome friend and go to girl for the day, Lani, handled a lot of the little things like answering questions about placecards, candles, wedding party members asking where to be and most importantly finding the florist before she left the venue and having a bridesmaid bouquet redone after it was accidentally drop kicked. Sure Murphy’s Law is pretty evident and because there are so many important components of pulling together an entire wedding – something is bound to go awry. I have seen it all from no show limos to the wrong color flowers, to a bridal gown without a bustle (I was able to make one with some giant safety pins at the reception), to missing bartenders to broken zippers on bridesmaid dresses during getting ready to a fainting groomsman during a ceremony to missing centerpieces to ice-storms and rainstorms and heatwaves and snowstorms. But in all my time I have never once had the ultimate goal delayed – my couples always get married!!!
Just look at the pictures of Andrea – you couldn’t wipe the grin off her face all day long, unless of course you gave a tearful toast but then that’s to be expected. Congratulations Andrea and Paul, no matter how little or how much yellow was in the bouquets, you had a beautiful day shared with fantastic friends and family and you’re married!!!
I’m also proud of the wedding party who braved the cooler temps and romped around the park with us after the ceremony – that late afternoon in the fall sun was too glorious to not take advantage of for wedding party photos. We were all rewarded with an appetizer spread at Charleyhorse during the extra time we had before the reception at Tiebel’s.
Photographers: Rachael Michael and Ariel Biscan
Ceremony: St. Maria Goretti, Dyer, IN
Reception: Tiebel’s Restaurant, Schererville, IN
- I’m making it my own personal mission to photograph a wedding in a St. Maria Goretti church in every state in the US. This past April I was at St. Maria Goretti in Scottsdale, AZ and for Andrea and Paul’s wedding in early November I was at St. Maria Goretti in Dyer, IN and next spring I will photograph a wedding at St. Maria Goretti in Madison, WI. So here is my personal request for more weddings at St. Maria Goretti churches. It would have been perfect if she was the patron saint of wedding photographers but I looked it up and she is the patron saint of chastity, rape victims, youth, teenage girls, poverty, purity and forgiveness (according to Wikipedia.) -































































































































































































































































































